You're Engaged, Now What?  The Ultimate Wedding Planning Guide

You're Engaged, Now What? The Ultimate Wedding Planning Guide

You're Engaged, Now What? 💍 The Ultimate Wedding Planning Guide
Congratulations! You just said "YES!" and now you're engaged—what an exciting time! 🎉 But after the initial joy, you might be wondering… what’s next?
Don’t worry! We’ve got you covered with this step-by-step guide to help you navigate the exciting journey from engagement to "I do!"
1️⃣ Celebrate the Moment 🎉
Before diving into planning, take a moment to soak it all in!
Share the exciting news with your closest family and friends first.
Snap engagement photos—even if it's just a cute selfie with your ring!
Consider throwing an engagement party to kick off the celebrations.
💡 Pro Tip: Don’t feel pressured to have all the answers right away—this is YOUR moment to enjoy!
2️⃣ Set Your Wedding Budget 💰
Money talk isn’t glamorous, but it’s the foundation of your wedding planning.
Who’s contributing? (Parents, family, or just you two?)
What’s your overall budget? (Venue, dress, catering, photography, etc.)
Prioritize what’s most important—splurge on what matters most!
💡 Pro Tip: Always budget for unexpected costs! A little financial cushion will save you stress later.
3️⃣ Create a Guest List 📝
Before booking anything, you need a rough guest count.
Start by listing immediate family and closest friends.
Decide if you want a big wedding or an intimate gathering.
Consider your budget and venue capacity when finalizing.
💡 Pro Tip: Each guest impacts your catering, seating, and venue size—keep it realistic!
4️⃣ Pick Your Wedding Date 📅
Choosing a date is one of the biggest decisions!
Do you want a spring, summer, fall, or winter wedding?
Are there special dates that hold meaning for you?
Check venue availability before finalizing.
💡 Pro Tip: Be flexible with dates if you want to snag a dream venue at a lower price!
5️⃣ Find Your Perfect Venue 🏰
Your venue sets the tone for the entire wedding!
Do you want beachside, barn, ballroom, or backyard vibes?
Consider venues that offer packages to simplify planning.
Book early—popular venues fill up fast!
💡 Pro Tip: Visit in person before making any decisions! Photos don’t always show the full picture.
6️⃣ Choose a Wedding Style & Theme 🎨
This is where your personality shines!
Romantic & Classic? Soft florals & candlelit elegance.
Boho & Rustic? Earthy tones, wood details, and pampas grass.
Modern & Chic? Sleek lines, bold colors, and contemporary details.
💡 Pro Tip: Use Pinterest & Instagram for inspo, but make it uniquely yours!
7️⃣ Hire Your Dream Team 👰‍♀️🤵‍♂️
Some vendors book months (or even years) in advance!
Start looking for:
✅ Wedding Planner (if you want full-service help)
✅ Photographer & Videographer
✅ Caterer & Cake Designer
✅ Florist & Decor Stylist
✅ DJ/Band & Entertainment
💡 Pro Tip: Read reviews & ask for recommendations before booking!
8️⃣ Say Yes to the Dress (or Suit!) 👗🤵
Finding the perfect outfit can take time, so start early!
Research styles that flatter your body type.
Consider alterations & fittings in your timeline.
Think about shoes & accessories to complete the look.
💡 Pro Tip: Bring your crew, but limit opinions—it’s YOUR day!
9️⃣ Register for Gifts 🎁
People will ask where you’re registered—make it easy for them!
Choose items you’ll actually use (home essentials, experiences, honeymoon funds).
Pick multiple price points for different budgets.
Consider adding charity donations as an option.
💡 Pro Tip: Register early so guests can shop for your engagement party & bridal shower!
🔟 Plan the Pre-Wedding Events 🥂
Weddings are more than just one day—enjoy the entire journey!
✨ Engagement Party – Kick off the excitement!
✨ Bridal Shower & Bachelorette/Bachelor Parties – Celebrate with your closest crew!
✨ Rehearsal Dinner – Get everyone together before the big day!
💡 Pro Tip: Don’t stress—delegate planning to family & the bridal party!
🎉 Final Thoughts: Enjoy the Ride!
Wedding planning can feel overwhelming, but this is one of the most exciting times of your life!
💖 Remember:
✔️ Take it one step at a time
✔️ Don’t sweat the small stuff—it will all come together
✔️ Make choices that feel authentic to you as a couple
Your dream wedding is on the way! 🥂✨
👉 Need help with wedding décor & details? Check out Ever After Extras by JennyGems—your one-stop shop for all things wedding! 🎀


Back to blog

Leave a comment